Lets say, for arguments sake that a little boy named Johnny just threw a temper tantrum and threw his bowl of Coco Crispies all over the kitchen floor. Now there are two things his mother could do at this point to correct him. She could either use corporal punishment, taking its form in nearly abusive words or a few backhands across his face, or she could simply have a talk with him and explain why his behavior was wrong and why he should not do it again. Now which one would accomplish more? Obviously, simply talking to little Johnny would accomplish more.
Not only would he know that what he did was wrong, but also he would know not to do it again. Now if she had spanked him or taken harsh words with him, she would be the lesser for it. He would be left with no reason for why his action was wrong, and he would resent his mother and possibly end up with some emotional damage since his mother gave him no reasoning behind her actions. He would see his mother as an abusive parent, which would lead him to fear his mother for years to come, dissolving any possibility of them ever developing a normal mother-son relationship. This is just one fictional example that probably takes form in some way or another in the homes of millions of families. It is more than a question of whether or not to hit a child; it is a question of whether or not it benefits the child.
Harsh words and/or a physical punishment do not adequately correct a child and they also leave the child with unanswered questions as to why he was punished in that manner. Those who use this form of punishment try to justify it by saying that they had it used on them and they turned out o. k. In response to this, only one out of three persons who smoke actually die from smoking.
Does this mean that cigarettes are not harmful? No, cigarettes are harmful, it is just that not everyone who smokes actually dies from it. In the same way, not everyone who has encounters with corporal punishment as a child, ends up getting hurt in some way or another. With so many advances in the field of child psychology, one must wonder why corporal punishment is still being used. It is by no means radical to suggest that this form of punishment should be removed completely. It offers no benefits to society, but rather keeps it from advancing to new heights.
It is our children that will form society in the future, and it is not acceptable for them to be treated in a manner in accordance with corporal punishment. By using corporal punishment to discipline our children, we are in effect punishing society as a whole. There is no other conclusion to be reached except that corporal punishment cannot and should not be used.Bibliography: .